Asumi’s top 5 reasons to be a dominatrix or a submissive

Dear Readers,

I told S that I was not considering “my reward” as a proper reward. It benefited her as much a it benefited me. She therefore agreed to my suggestion for a real reward. Guess what was my request? Eheh. Obviously: meeting J and CW.

I already told my dear couple I was available for a meet up. Jasline seemed really delighted which warmed my heart. I cut the details of our discussion excerpt that she asked me whether I wanted to be a dominatrix or a submissive during our next sexssion.
That made me weigh each role with a careful mind.

Here are the main reasons I would choose any of these two roles:

Top 5 reasons to be a dominatrix:
– To test the obedience and trust of the submissive
– To play with the limits of the sub (moral?) and push them further (exhibitionism)
– To explore and realize own fantasies through submissive by forcing the sub to do something the dominatrix fantasize about (bdsm)
– To ask the submissive to give physical pleasure to dominatrix (lick)
– To degrade/humiliate the submissive.
– To be in control, to be the one deciding the course of actions.

Top 5 reasons to be a submissive:
– To give trust and pleasure to the partner(s)
– To explore new sexual frontiers through someone else’s fantasies which one’s mind might not have thought of
– To not be afraid of crossing the line contrary to being a dominatrix
– To be taken in any way that pleases the dominatrix
– To feel the great excitation from being helpless and possibly humiliated, degraded or forced. In one word: being controlled.

I think I am more of a sub. I simply prefer to do what I am asked to rather than worry thinking of what to ask the sub to do. Anyway I know that Jasline would be more than happy to be my dominatrix: she loves playing me.


Readers’ Contributions – Joseph and Asumi

Dear Readers,

A new story from Joseph. It is finger licking good.

Asumi was disappointed yesterday as I didn’t wish her happy birthday. So I decided to pay a visit to her house. When she saw me, she was angry at me for forgetting her birthday. I was very apologetic and said:

Joseph: Sorry for forgetting your birthday,I will do anything you want me to do as an apology for yesterday.

She looked at me:
Asumi: Anything sweetie?

She lead me to her room and told me to lay down on the bed and I did what I was told. She then started removing her top and shorts, realising that she wasn’t wearing bra and any panties. She went to my pants and slowly pulled them down. Soon my dick was in front of her and she started licking it. Her licking made me groan ,then she went into 69 position. She told me to lick her vagina and my tongue went to work. With my dick in her mouth, I licked her vagina until she cummed. She then instructed me to finger her and went back to my dick.

Soon she cummed again ,this time I licked her cum and she told me to remain in this position. She then positioned her vagina above my dick and slowly inserted my dick into her. She then started bouncing up and down with a smile on her face. As she was bouncing, I looked at her boobs bouncing and I was soon reaching my limit. She then told me to cum in her and I did what she told me. She slowly laid on me with her chest against my face.

Knowing what to do, I licked her right nipple while my rights hand was pinching her left nipple. She moaned. With my dick still in her, she slowly removed it and went into fours. Then I positioned myself and slowly inserted my dick into her again. Both of my hands were on her boobs and I continued fucking her.

Soon I felt another gush of cum coming and slowly pulled my dick out. She then laid on the bed panting. I cummed onto her boobs. She then touched her boobs leaving some cum in her hands and started licking it. She then said:

Asumi: Yummy! Thank you for giving me so much fun today.

Readers’ Contributions – Staplerman

Dear Readers,

The great Staplerman is striking again! He wrote another wonderful story for me, staring me! Here it goes. Hope you’ll enjoy the story as much as I did.

For a start, let me say that this is a non-sexual entry that I wrote for Asumi, with a daring attempt to make a good guess about her personality and desires. What I have written in no way reflects her true personality and is not intended to expose or taint her reputation. Read it with an open mind, and half-believe what I wrote for you guys to enjoy.

Me: ‘Asumi, give this a try and tell me if it’s good.’

I placed the cup of cappuccino on her table and she held the cup to feel the temperature before taking a sip. The sight of a beautiful half-Japanese lady drinking from a posh looking black up couldn’t be more beautiful, especially with that leopard printed tank top with a pair of leather-looking, shimmering leggings.

Asumi: ‘It’s good. Very milky and sweet even without sugar.’

Me: ‘Haha. Wait a while more and tell me how is it again.’

The look on her face was priceless as she gulped another two mouthful of it, as though some magic would happen after emptying the cup. I took the time to clean up the coffee machine and turned off the lights, preparing to close shop for the night. She was around the bar earlier and dropped by without informing me. Though I wasn’t very tired that night, her visit did brighten my day to have someone accompanying me even for a while.

As the front signage was shut off, I saw her moving on the couch, as though wriggling to something in her pants. I walked past her to clear her cup and she held me abruptly, pulling me down to sit beside her.

Me: ‘How? Is the coffee good?’

Asumi (whispering): ‘What did you add inside?’

Me: ‘A secret formula.’

Asumi: ‘Tell me!’

Me: ‘I can’t. It’s a secret!’

I could see her face blushing in the faint lights from the street lamps and her hands were stroking along her inner thighs. I placed my arm around her and she snuggled quickly into my embrace, giving me a feel that I have control over her now. She was a quick learner when she placed her hand over my groin, disturbing the hard on that was growing underneath. How I wished I could just whip my cock out for her to do anything to it then, but there was something else on my mind.

Me: ‘I want you to take off your leggings.’

Asumi: ‘But I didn’t bring any spare bottoms.’

Me: ‘You won’t need them. I am not going to dirty it.’

Asumi did not think twice after hearing my assurance, and quickly removed her leggings. Her smooth butt simply glowed in the dark and was so alluring that I couldn’t stop staring at them. There was just no way any guys could resist if they were in my position. That long flowing black hair, body hugging tank top, ample breasts and perfectly curved hips. What would you do if you were here?

Asumi :’What do you want me to do?’

Me: ‘Masturbate yourself. But do not climax.’

Asumi: ‘Cause you’re going to help me?’

Me: ‘Just do it first.’

I went to the seats opposite her and sat comfortably, while she placed her feet on the short table in front and her fingers got busy getting herself off. It only took her two minutes before she asked me to go over, and help her to stop before she came.

I pinned her hand against the backrest after a few more seconds and her hips were jerking to deny the fact that she wasn’t allow to cum. Fully satisfied at her performance and self-control, I took out the bottle of serum where the ‘secret’ was contained. Holding it against her nose, she breathed normally and the chocolatey scent made her smile a little.

Asumi: ‘It smells nice.’

Me: ‘Like the coffee?’

Asumi: ‘Yeah.’

I safely tucked the bottle away into my pockets and held both her hands together against the sofa, immobilising her while standing in front.

Asumi: ‘What’s happening?’

Me: ‘Wait.’

I squatted down between her opened legs and blew some cold air onto her pussy, where a soft shiver slowly grew to an intense one.

Asumi: ‘What’s happening? I am feeling warm down there.’

Me: ‘You’ll see. Don’t worry. It won’t hurt.’

Her head flung backwards onto the sofa and her arms grew stronger to resist my hold on her. Her hips were arching up and down and the more she did it, the moving air around her pussy stirred an orgasm that was building up but never seemed to reach.

Asumi: ‘I feel like cumming now.. but I can’t!’

I pulled my hand away from hers and gently used my middle finger to give her clit an upward swipe. Her free hand almost went back to her pussy but I caught her before she succeeded, and something magical occurred.

Her body weakened all of a sudden and the orgasm that she had been waiting for, came like the pleasure of relieving a full bladder, gently, but satisfying. As the first wave of climax passed, I flicked her clit again and the second one came. She could not believe how easily her body orgasmed and my fingers felt so powerful then.

Asumi: ‘Somemore?’

I continued for a total of three times before the fourth one came after a minute. The effects were wearing off and I was about to end her fun for the night.

Me: ‘I am stopping here tonight.’

Asumi: ‘Why? We haven’t even did it.’

Me: ‘You are not supposed to.’

Asumi: ‘You have been reading my blog?’

Me: ‘Everyday.’

Asumi: ‘But I really want it tonight. And I can do it one more time for this week. It’s Sunday already!’

Me: ‘Save that for someone more important. I am just Staplerman. Someone who is trained just enough to stimulate your mind, not please your body.’

Asumi: ‘You.. sigh ‘

I did not want to hear what she had to say because it didn’t matter to me. When someone wants to curb an addiction, I will respect their goal and in my own ability, offer a small escape without jeopardising their efforts. I stood in the back waiting for her to wear her leggings and appeared when she was done.

We waited for a cab to send her home after what happened, with me feeling a little guilty for not making full use of her time and effort to be with me. It was past one after midnight when a Comfort saw us on the opposite side of the road, waving to us to wait while he made a U-turn.

Asumi: ‘Thank you for today.’

Me: ‘You’re not mad at me?’

Asumi: ‘I was. But I know what you did for me.’

She gave me a peck before hopping into the taxi, waving at me till I was out of sight. My journey home was filled with thoughts about this awesome writer and her mission to control her desires. She had this special characteristic that made her feel precious to everyone who had interacted with her. I hope she had enjoyed herself without crossing the lines and gained a little insight to such ‘magic’ liquid that is available in the (black) market.