Good Girlfriend Night Out


Dear Diary,

Last night I went over to Natsumi’s. I so love her flat: so spacious and very windy. something great in singapore. During our long hours of traditional bitching and gossiping I told her about CW’s email. She almost fell from her chair. I did not mention to her about him before. So I had to tell how I met CW after my jog and how I followed him to his place. Bitchy as she is, I had to give her all the details about the action on the rooftop. Natsumi always enjoys sex stories and it was actually the first time I was sharing one. Looks like when we are getting older we don’t talk about the coolest shoes or the latest video if the Backstreet Boys anymore.

I told her it was not something I felt particularly proud to brag about. She agreed with me she was actually surprised I did such a thing with a stranger. But somehow she did not judge me. She actually seem happy for me. She is of the philosophy that sex is alway good and who it is with is a second order matter. Maybe she was thinking about her ex-boyfriend, a bastard who destroyed her but who so happened to be a king in bed. Anyway, let’s get back to my point. This concerns our discussion.

As far as my memory could take (wine marries better with my physical faculties than with my cerebral faculties) , it went roughly like:
Natsumi: – I so cant believe you… blah blah blah… with a stranger? … … blah blah blah.. was it good? … blah blah blah…
Me: And then the guy sent me that email
N: You must have given him a strong impression.
Me: Strong or wrong? Impression of cheapness, well thanks!
Then she continued:
N: So what are you going to reply to him?
Me: Huh, you crazy or what? I am going to tell him to f*** off. What else you want me to tell him?
N: I dunno… if he was good and you had fun, you might have considered it
Me: and this time with his girlfriend around. Yuck.. I feel like puking at the thought of a hairy pussy against my face. Where is the wine?
N: ok, ok.. well then tell him no.. As simple as that. No need to get all irritated and call him a jerk for days my dear

One thing struck me: Natsumi was so serious when she asked me what I would do. As if she would take time over to think and might go for it.

Kisses,
A.

The List Or Entry Number 1


Dear Diary,

Remember I mentioned the List in the past? Well, I found it and I am going to post the entries on my blog as promised.

Since I started listing down my fantasies like 4 or 5 years ago, I realized I actually did some of them (never say never as the saying goes). So I am going to classify the entries according to:
– Done
– Feasible if… the right person/ppl, mood, etc
– I will NEVER do

I might add a few new items along the process. With age comes experience and new ideas.

Enough words for now and here comes entry number 1:

Tied to the bed while my partner is making me love.

Classification: Done

To be continued,
Asumi

Thinking


Dear Diary,

During the past 2 days I thought several times about CW’s email. That guy does have some balls to write to me like that. I do not even know if he is not making up a story. Does he really have a girlfriend? I do not recall seeing any pictures of any ladies at his place.

I only spent time in the bathroom and upstairs though.

A.

Still Under Shock


Dear Diary,

This is such a flabbergasting (I finally got to use that word I learned at school) email. I had to read it several times to really got what CW was asking me. I so can not believe it. He thinks I am cheap or what? Or maybe he surfs too many Japanese porn sites and thinks we are all into these strange sexual stuff. Ok we had sex once on his rooftop but that does not mean I am willing to do everything imaginable with him.

Unbelievable.
A.

Crazy Moron!!


HiDear Diary,

Today I received the most unexpected email from the guy some time ago, the one with the jacuzzi. I shall call him by his name: CW. I gave him my email address when I saw his poor face after I politely refused to give him my phone number. I thought we would have left our acquaintance there as I did not know he had a Jacuzzi by that time.

Here it goes.

Dear Asumi,

This is CW. We met up a Sunday evening a few weeks ago after your jog. You then came over my place. I think you would remember.

I decided to write to you after a lot of thinking. I did write a few emails in the past few days but I could never find the courage to press the “send” button. What I am going to ask you might shock you or even disgust you. Please read what follows with an open mind and just forget about this email if you are not interested.

As you might have seen at my place, I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now and to put it shortly we had our dose of great times and harder ones. What does not break you makes you stronger the saying goes with. One day, I discovered my girlfriend had some fun with colleagues which I would qualify as intimate. She is a stewardess on SIA and these things seem to happen quite regularly in the hotels during stop over. But we decided to discuss this issue over openly and share our needs and wills. I discovered she was not so happy sexually with me and we concluded we needed to spicy up our life. I hope my words are not getting to long but I feel I need to explain myself before continuing. As I already wrote this is not easy.
Dear Diary,

Today I received the most unexpected email from the guy some time ago, the one with the jacuzzi. I shall call him by his name: CW. I gave him my email address when I saw his poor face after I politely refused to give him my phone number. I thought we would have left our acquaintance there as I did not know he had a Jacuzzi by that time.

Here it goes.

Dear Asumi,

This is CW. We met up a Sunday evening a few weeks ago after your jog. You then came over my place. I think you would remember.

I decided to write to you after a lot of thinking. I did write a few emails in the past few days but I could never find the courage to press the “send” button. What I am going to ask you might shock you or even disgust you. Please read what follows with an open mind and just forget about this email if you are not interested.

As you might have seen at my place, I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now and to put it shortly we had our dose of great times and harder ones. What does not break you makes you stronger the saying goes with. One day, I discovered my girlfriend had some fun with colleagues which I would qualify as intimate. She is a stewardess on SIA and these things seem to happen quite regularly in the hotels during stop over. But we decided to discuss this issue over openly and share our needs and wills. I discovered she was not so happy sexually with me and we concluded we needed to spicy up our life. I hope my words are not getting to long but I feel I need to explain myself before continuing. As I already wrote this is not easy.

Well, it has been a few weeks now that we were thinking of exploring new avenues and in particular inviting someone to our bed to join us in a new experience. Since this would be our first time we promised ourselves to take our time to be ready and find the perfect lady. I guess you know have an idea where I am going to and I hope you will not decide to close this email just yet… As I remember you as a soft lady, slightly shy but who seemed to enjoy these things of life I told my girlfriend about you and she agreed to contact you.

I do hope you will not get disgusted here and that you will seriously consider our offer.

Cheers,
CW

Well, it has been a few weeks now that we were thinking of exploring new avenues and in particular inviting someone to our bed to join us in a new experience. Since this would be our first time we promised ourselves to take our time to be ready and find the perfect lady. I guess you know have an idea where I am going to and I hope you will not decide to close this email just yet… As I remember you as a soft lady, slightly shy but who seemed to enjoy these things of life I told my girlfriend about you and she agreed to contact you.

I do hope you will not get disgusted here and that you will seriously consider our offer.

Cheers,
CW