Group Sex: My First Orgy


Dear Diary,

Excited by the title of the post? I hope you are as excited about reading this post as I am about writing it.

Looking back I would have never thought that I would ever blog about my sexual life and even less about my first orgy. I would never have thought that I would ever attend a group sex party to begin with. If you had asked me only a few years ago, I would have said I was conservative about things related to sex. But ever since I met CW and Jasline, I came to the realization that I enjoy kinky things. In short, I became more in harmony with my sexual needs and fantasies. Luckily, CW and Jasline provided (and are still providing) me with ways to realize them, such as my first orgy.

It all started with a call from CW asking me whether I would be up for some group fun. He had a couple friend who were planning a sex party at their place and were asking him to join in. Since it was not really Jasline’s cup of tea (she tried once but did not really like the whole experience), she suggested that I replace her. I reminded CW I had never tried this before and that I anxious about groups so I asked him to give me some time to think it over. The following day, I called Jasline to share with me her experience. She told that me the party she attended was OK overall but there were too many people for her taste: about 20 guys to 5 ladies. She found the ratio too imbalanced and she ended up too “busy” to enjoy. She concluded that she was not into sex involving more than 1 couple and that in the end, our little arrangement was just great. That was perfect to me as well and I reminded her one of our sex-capades was long overdue.

Since Jasline reassured me a bit and I now feel comfortable and safe with CW, I gave him the green light to bring me to his friend’s party provided that there would not be too many people.

The Party

It was held at CW’s friends’ condo in central Singapore. The invitation was for 8.30 but when we reached early at about 8.20 there were already 4 couples drinking and happily chatting. It looked like the participants were eager to enjoy their evening. Another couple joined in much later at about 10. To make sure that the guests would feel comfortable and uninhibited enough, there were lots of drinks, and the bottles that each couple was recommended to bring were not needed.

The couples

In total, there were 5 couples including the hosts. The whole crowd was rather young: in their 30s to mid 40s. The host guy was in his mid 40s, average build, sporty and smart looking. His wife was in her 30s, petite and slim. Except for myself and a Vietnamese lady, everybody was local and most were professionals like bankers, lawyers. This was basically a smart crowd that works hard, which implied that they also play hard sometimes. And tonight, my impression was that people were without doubt wanting to play hard.

We gave a short introduction about ourselves. People asked if it was the first time that CW and me were attending, and how we felt about groups. People could sense I was a bit nervous and they all told me not to worry, that it would be great and I would love it. Plus, since I was the only new participant tonight, they will all take care of me. This was not too reassuring to me as I pictured all of them around me doing their best to keep me entertained.

Before the party began we were reminded of the rules were.

The Rules

Rules for sex parties are very simple, as participants usually do not use their heads much.

- Respect everybody: do not force anybody. If someones asks to stop or is uncomfortable with doing something, people have to stop. Being open minded does not mean one can force.

- Be nice to people. If someone comes over to you and politely asks if you are up to something, unless you are really uncomfortable with the request, you should agree. Anyway, the guy host repeated that all the participants were good looking and there was no reason to discriminate based on looks only.

- Wait patiently for your turn. Do not join in unless the people are open to your joining in.

- Enjoy as long as you want.

The lady host then explained that it was a small party (much to my surprise) and that “numbers” would not be needed. She explained that often, when there are too many people, in order to avoid guests rushing they will give random numbers randomly to ladies and guys. Then guests with matching numbers will be paired together to start the party. I was glad we did not have to resort to numbers as you can’t choose who you start having sex with.

Then the host turned on an alarm clock for 11.30. By that time, anybody who was still there was deemed to have agreed to the rules and willing to take part in the action.

The action

Finally the alarm rang. My heart started bumping fast, my hands were slightly shaking and becoming a bit wet. Nobody had left by that time, so there were 5 couples. The lady host then declared the party was on and invited us ladies to make a straight line in the living room and instructed us to remove our clothes. At first, I felt apprehensive but I stripped like the other ladies. Being naked with the girls standing up in front of 5 men looking at us with lust turned me on before long. The lady host then reminded the guys to behave like gentlemen, which meant to stop staring at us and bring us drinks instead.

CW came to me with a glass of wine and asked me if I was still all right. I comforted him by telling him that I was fine and, anyway, I knew what to expect by coming here. I somehow expected to end up naked, at least partially. In any case, it was too late to leave and I confess that I was actually in the mood for some flesh-to-flesh action. This made him laugh and he left telling me I was the prettiest girl but that he nevertheless wanted to try the Vietnamese lady. I noticed him looking at her a few times since she arrived with her boyfriend. For sure, her big breast has caught his attention and libido.

I was alone for about 5 or 10 minutes sipping my glass of wine in the nude. When I looked around to check what was happening, I saw the lady host walking to one of the guys and unbuttoning his pants without saying a word. After pulling down his boxers, she started to give him a blow job: the action has kicked off, I told myself. At that moment a guy came over to me: out of the 5 guys, he was the least good looking. He was slightly balding, wearing thick glasses and was a tad overweight. Full of himself, he asked me straight if I wanted to fuck him. Even though I knew the rule about not rejecting anybody’s request, I politely told him I was not “ready” yet. This was my first time so he had to be understanding and maybe look for some fun with another girl in the meantime. He stayed a bit for a chat (he turned out to be a geek) before another guy joined in. This one was average looking, not fantastic, but was by far a better option than the nerd. When he realized that my glass was empty, he offered to refill it and suggested that we sit on the sofa. We would be more comfortable there, even though there was already a couple having oral sex. The guy was sitting while the lady was sucking him with her knees on the carpet.

After a while, with the steamy action all around, the moans and the spanking next to me, I was feeling horny and I moved closer to the guy. He gave me a few compliments about my physical appearance, and he said that he found my breast particularly nice. If he liked it, what else was he then waiting for but to touch it? These words went out of my mouth faster than my mind could think. Diligently, he started to caress my boobs and kiss them. After some caressing, his right hand was going down my hips then on my legs. I could not take his soft touch anymore and I pulled his fingers towards my pussy. My hands were busy squeezing his dick. We spent a few minutes like that, fondling and petting before he asked me whether I was fine with having intercourse. Well, this was partly the reason why I came and so I pulled down his pants. Next thing I knew, we were fucking right next to the other couple. Slowly initially, but then harder and harder. I exchanged glimpses and smiles a few times with the other couple. The guy had good stamina and it took him a while to get done. After the sex, we remained on the sofa and chatted a bit.

At that moment, the first guy came back and inquired whether I was fine now. He had looked at me fucking and declared that I should be warmed-up enough now. Since I had already declined the first time, I considered that it was better not to push him away again. So I followed him into one of the bedrooms. On the way, I saw CW and another guy sharing the Vietnamese girl. She gave me the impression that she was an expert in what she was doing. My conclusion was that it was not her first time. I was jealous: CW was having fun while I would have to endure sex with that unattractive guy.

As expected, the sex was disappointing. That guy was really into licking and foreplay, which were absolutely not needed in this situation. In any other occasion I would love licking and stuff but not that night: I was already wet thanks to the previous guy. On top of that he was talking way too much. I had to cut his crap by begging him to put his dick inside me. Luckily the guy was rather quick to cum. After he left, I stayed for a moment lying on the bed. CW entered the room and asked whether I was having fun. I told him it was ok but as far as he was concerned, he appeared to totally enjoy his night. He went out with a smile.

I went back to the living room where all the action was taking place. The coffee table has been pushed against the wall and the host lady was buysing herself with 4 guys on the carpet. They were literally taking turns to put their dicks in her pussy or her mouth. Even though she was petite, she knew how to spread her body and please them all. This lady definitely had experience and was ready to use it. I told myself it would not hurt to have a look and learn from her. I joined another lady on the sofa to get a good view: the show was certainly good as she was fingering herself. When I sat next to her, she smiled and put her legs on top of mine without pausing her self-pleasure.. After a while, I was also touching myself. This lady was truly skilled: it was like watching a porn movie live. I sat there for a while fingering myself and occasionally touching the other lady’s legs.

While CW was driving me back home, he wanted to know my impression. That was a good experience despite the less-than-great second guy. He pitied me and promised me the next time would be better. There would be a next time? I was not sure about that: some things taste better when they are done only once. However, I was glad I tried as this was a long-entertained fantasy of mine. I changed topic and asked him how the Vietnamese girl was. In his own words, she was freaking great. Her body was so hot, her boobs so big and she was keen in everything, even the back door… I stopped him there: that was too much detail for me.

Kisses,

A.

20 thoughts on “Group Sex: My First Orgy

  1. Hey thanks for the great sharing your experiences on your first Orgy. Sadly that you did not exactly enjoyed it 100% but I do hope that you will not let that stop. I’m also a Singaporean living in Australia and actively having an orgy lifestyle with friends from various parts of the world. Despite me being a guy, trust me that my first time was also a little awkward coming from a very conservative family background.

    Perhaps what made you most uncomfortable was the fact where you do not know these people prior to the party. That would be completely normal. Just sharing my own experience, my group consists of friends from University and we had been having orgies almost every weekends. We got to know each other during our stay at student hostels, eventually we formed an orgy group where our partners are the same people. With that, the girls were more comfortable as they are having sex with the same group of people they know. It is also much safer as we only have sex within our own group. Of course there are certain rules as well, pretty much the same as yours.

    I seriously believe that swinging/orgies lights up our sex lives. Lets face it, it gets boring just having sex with the same person all the time. Its like having Chicken Rice everyday for dinner. Having sex with multiple partners is fine as long as your partner knows, that is not cheating and based on a consensus by both parties. Have an open mind and happy swinging ! =D

  2. Asumi chan,
    I feel bad about your experience but am at the same time happy for you that your fantasy came true. :)
    I was once so close to an orgy… but i walked out instead… it was at a chalet and it wasn’t intentionally organised and there was only 1 girl to like 8 guys… i didn’t feel comfortable and so i walked out… so yup… i have a fantasy not fulfilled… lol.

      • Sounds more like a gang bang, since it was only 1 single girl. She’d have no doubt been quite exhausted from the sexxion, to say nothing of needing quite a voracious appetite required to enjoy it all… :-?

        Highly doubt that Asumi will ever join a gang bang, but if anyone’s inspired enough to write, maybe we can see Asumi featured in a GB story…? :twisted:

  3. Prevyt-ka my name is oranchov, I read about your sex story, interesting but I disagree about free sex comrade, who knows how many infection that these people carried… I judge woman not just by their physical appeareance , girls have heart and feeling too you know… I am a conservative thank you

  4. Great story Asumi. Heard about the orgy/swapping scene but not been to one yet. I’m more comfortable with same room sex or 2 couples only. Happy to have this setup if you keen. Drop me a mail Orameses@gmail.com

      • Sorry for the long delay in responding. Totally forgot about the post I made. Was a turn on, especially since we started fondling at the hotel bar and ended in the hotel room of a friend vising town. The girls were soaking wet in the hotel lift :)

  5. Its great to hear that there are people here with the maturity and openness to realize that such a lifestyle is actually enjoyable and beneficial to any relationship rather than being detrimental. It is indeed difficult to find a close group where the ratio of men to women is not too unbalanced. I reckon it could also be difficult to find groups where heterosexuals, homosexuals and bisexuals can mix well (am a heterosexual myself although I guess I wouldn’t be against participating in all kinds of activity less anal intercourse, as it seems rather painful and damaging in my mind). Would love to participate if there are any future activities.

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